Woman on left: He just doesn't get it... In order for me to want sex, I need the right mood, meal, setting clothes, wine, words, tone, time, lighting, temperature, music, and minty fresh breath!

All He really needs........is me!

Woman on right: I know... Husbands just don't understand romance!

Lee's commentary:

What's sad about this comic is that this seems to be reality for many men. I'm part of an international marriage ministry and I can tell you that this seems to be the rule rather than the exception. Men around the world often feel rejected and unattractive when the woman they love demands perfect moments and settings for lovemaking rather than simply grasping the opportunity to share the most intimate of experiences with the man they claim to love.

Based on the research, it appears that some men are this way as well.

This should not be the case. Nothing brings a man and woman together like the act of lovemaking. Each shares themselves -- body, mind and spirit, and participates in a bonding experience that almost always strengthens the overall relationship. This bonding experience of lovemaking should not need an excuse or demand within marriage.

How sad it is that one needs flowers, candles, music, gifts, words, etc., when the other only needs...the other. Who's the shallow one?

Dr. Williard Harley conducted a study of the married couples he counseled in which he required them to have sex every single day while he counseled them. One hundred percent of the couples improved the health of their relationship significantly. What does that tell us?

Your sex life should not be neglected if you want to have a happy and healthy marriage.

If your marriage needs help, click here.

Lee Wilson
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